“Love is the ability and willingness to allow those that you care for to be what they choose for themselves without any insistence that they satisfy you.”― Wayne W. Dyer When was the last time you loved without hesitation or caution? (is that really possible?) Withholding love as a means of control only leads to distrust and resentment. Loving unconditionally means loving without judgment. Free yourself from unrealistic expectations and accept the person you love for who the